Frank Kobola Frank is a contributing writer for Cosmopolitan. Using a good lubricant is a fantastic way of enhancing the feeling of sex and therefore your ability to orgasm. Have your partner lube up the soft pad of a finger and stick it about 2 inches inside your butt.

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